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What is the NUMBER ONE CHARACTERISTIC that all women are into?
Go on and think about it.

Do you think it’s PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS?
A full head of shiny thick hair, perfect sparkling-white teeth, a chiseled jawline, tallness, muscles.

Do you think it’s SUCCESS?
A great job, owning a company, being famous, etc.

Do you think it’s WHAT YOU HAVE?
A cool car, a wardrobe full of designer clothes, a beautiful home

These things are what most men think of when they consider WHAT WOMEN WANT.
It’s a tricky question. Even Sigmund Freud, master of the human brain, died with the question on his lips: “What do women want?”

Well, guess what. I’M a woman, and I can tell you RIGHT NOW what we want.
And here’s a hint for you: it isn’t ANY of the characteristics above. Sure, they might give you a slight advantage, I suppose – but if you’re lacking the KEY INGREDIENT, then NO amount of money, fame, or physical attractiveness is going to help.

Do you know how many letters and emails I get from men, who describe themselves as “tall,good-looking, and with a great job” who have a LOT of trouble attracting females?

Clearly, it’s not the “obvious” choices,like looks, riches, or fame, that women actually list as the desirable qualities of a potential mate. We don’t really give a damn about any of the stuff listed above, truth be told.

No, the thing that attracts females MORE THAN ANYTHING to a man – regardless of whether he’s tall or not, hot or not, buff or not, “successful”or not – is CONFIDENCE.

SEXUAL confidence, to be precise.

And no, I’m not talking about that feeling of smugness that you get when you think you know how to please females in the bedroom.

When I say “sexual confidence”, I mean the kind of confidence that a man has who can just ….
… attract females NATURALLY.

He doesn’t need “lines” or “pickup material”or a planned-out routine to do it.
He just KNOWS that he’s irresistible, that he’s got great people skills, and that people find him attractive. Period.

(And before you start freaking out about your less-than-perfect physique or your lack of designer suits or your dearth of a cool car. RELAX. Remember, none of these things attract women! You don’t need any of them to know you’re irresistible.)

To some people, it’s kind of like the question, “which came first, the chicken or the egg?”

Except in this case, it might be, “Do men know they’re attractive because females are attracted to them? Or do women find men attractive because men KNOW they are?”

Which comes first?

THE MAN KNOWS HE’S ATTRACTIVE FIRST.

THIS is what attracts females.

Fact: Females are powerfully attracted to a man who is sexually confident.
Clearly, to attract the kinds of women that you want to attract, you need to get your “inner game” sorted out – because once you place a high value on yourself (i.e. you know you’re an attractive guy), women will follow your lead and echo that opinion of you.
Seriously.

So your first step towards getting that inner game sorted out is to get your head screwed on straight and FIGURE OUT THE REAL DEAL. Get past the false belief that females are attracted to men who are tall/good looking/rich/famous etc.

One great way of doing this? Simply get out there in the world. Go take a seat in a busy part of town, or in the park, and look at the couples strolling around. See for yourself how many beautiful women are paired with average-looking guys.

To get over your limiting beliefs that “hot women go for hot men” (or famous, rich, etc etc),YOU HAVE TO SEE IT FOR YOURSELF. So become an avid people-watcher for an afternoon or two.

Your next step: realize that there is no quick fix for this issue.

I know this is a drag. But in all honesty,there is nothing you can do that will “solve” your confidence issues overnight. Or in a week. Or in a month.

Building strong self-confidence is an ONGOING EFFORT. It is something that you will need to work on CONSTANTLY in order to get this area of your life sorted out. You need to be prepared for this!

And, last of all, you need to give yourself something to be confident ABOUT. You need to make sure you can base your self-confidence ON something, because otherwise it’s just going to be a load of hot air that’s based on ZILCH.

And if your confidence rings hollow – if you’re just FAKING IT – then it won’t work. Because women can tell the difference between a guy who KNOWS he’s confident … and a guy who just WANTS TO BE confident.

So: brush up those people skills! Find out about small talk, how women like to be talked to, how to flirt successfully, and how to make people like you.

Your friend,
Mirabelle Summers

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About the authors:
Slade Shaw and Mirabelle Summers are the inimitable duo of dating and relationship expert sat MeetYourSweet.com. Their approach to dating advice, particularly in the sphere of unlocking personal power and creating life and relationship success, has empowered their followers to make potent personal breakthroughs the world over.
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wL